Imagine that you wake up on a beautiful, sunny day. A big yawn followed by a big stretch and a happy and excited snuggle from the dog. After dressing in walking clothes, you find your way to the door where the harness and leash are hanging. Put on shoes and put the harness around the wiggly and happy dog. You head out the door to embrace this beautiful day.
You choose to go on one of your dogs favorite routes. The walk is going great. The morning dew shines in the sunlight and that brings a smile to your face. Your dog is sniffing away, bringing in all the latest neighborhood news and information. You haven't gone very far yet, and wish to get our exercise in on this walk.
Checking your watch you realize it is time to move on if you are to stay on schedule. You must prepare for the day. But wait! Your dog pulls up and hesitates, not wishing to move forward. Their nose in the ground, they are investigating. Tick tick tick, the time seems to pass faster and faster. Do you become stressed, frustrated, or impatient? Or do you always have treats with you for just such an occasion? We do have work to think about after all.
I imagine on some level, each and every one of us can relate to this story, even if it wasn't on a walk. We can each relate to a time when we were in a bit of a rush to move along and our dogs had different ideas. Pulling out a treat to move them along works many times, but is it supporting the dog?
When our dogs are not listening to us, they are engaged in very important work. This story represents the dog and how they are asking for us to observe and listen to them.
What is your dog sniffing? What is the body language? Notice the little things like posture, tail position, ear position. If they are sniffing a plant, what is it? Is it grass, or flower or weed? There are so many possibilities for our dogs sniffing, but all we really need to know is that the opportunity to smell is very, very important to their wellbeing.
I am sure many of you already allow the dog to choose their walk, but now I encourage you to add the skill of observation. Be with your dog on their walk. No phones. Write down anything curious that you observe. Keep a quick journal of each sniffing adventure. Take photos of grass, flowers, weeds that capture their interest. Often, we believe immediately that our dogs are smelling other creatures, and that is, of course, true. But they are also inhaling the healing properties of the plant life that exists around them.
No unnecessary conversations, thoughts, or worries. Watch them. For me, it is the best entertainment in town!